You're Fabulous! Read On To Find Out Why

You're fabulous.

Whether we connected recently, like right now, or months ago, I truly appreciate your desire to improve your relationship life. 

It takes courage and self-love to do it, and to keep showing up for yourself and what you want.

This is why you're fabulous.

It feels really good to be appreciated, right? 

Carina, my partner, and I started sharing appreciations in the very beginning of our relationship and never stopped because it feels so good.

Do I ever get tired of hearing that I’m handsome and sexy?

Never.

Or appreciated for listening during a challenging conversation?

Nope.

The appreciations flow both ways, about how we look, feel, listen, show-up in times good and challenging. It never gets old.

There’s nothing needy or forced. It feels like being present to each other with generous hearts or, as my teacher and inspiration Terry Real says, holding yourselves and each other in 'warm regard'.

As a couple, you get all too used to how you feel around each other, to the everyday things you do for them and they do for you, to how they look.

But the thoughtful and special things about one another - the things that first drew you to each other and the things you do for each other that actually make your life easier and better - can become mundane when they occur everyday. And then everyday life becomes mundane.

It's so easy not to notice things that can be appreciated in almost every situation with your partner.

But there they are, staring you in the face - picking the kids up from school, getting the groceries, the shirt they look great in, working a job, emptying the dishwasher, opening the door for you when your hands are full, listening to you complain about your boss… you see?

Look for the things your partner says and does that add to your life and you’ll discover one or an abundance to appreciate.

When you spot one, share it as soon as possible. Fill each other's tanks.

There’s an upward spiral of good stuff waiting for you.

And when you create a culture of appreciation, you have goodwill in the bank for when the two of you you hit a rough spot - the good things about your partner and your relationship are closer to hand and quicker to return to.

It’s never too late to start the habit of appreciations.

Another way to supercharge your relationship and get more intimacy and connection immediately is to have a Create Instant Connection session with me.

It's a simple and easy 45-minute session for you and your partner. We work together through a process that instantly (it's in the title!) gets you back the connection (it's in the title!) and intimacy that so easily gets lost in the stress and busyness of your job, parenting, caregiving and everything else you're doing.

 - Feel more like roommates than loving partners who are hot for each other?

- Once the dinner is done and the kids are in bed you've got nothing left for the relationship?

- Your life has become more about who doing what and who needs to be where when than the sexy connection and super hot teamwork that kicked off the beginning of your relationship?

Getting to this stage of disconnection and even resentment happens so slowly you don't notice it happening, until you're there. 

But you don't have to stay there. No sir not at all.

I love doing the Create Instant Connection sessions. Time flies by because the process simple and effective and fun. 

I get to see couples light up with excitement with the juicy possibilities opening up for them right there and then.

And you take what you learn in the session into your life immediately, that very day.

I have limited spots available, so book your spot right now.

Bottom Line: you’ll learn a simple and powerful way to feel connected throughout your busy days, and move through your life as a team feeling supported and cherished.

Don't miss your spot. Book your 45 minute Create Instant Connection session for you and your partner here for only $97 . 

Get connected!

Talk to me about having few fights and more intimacy. Book your free discovery call here

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